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Old 03-12-2008, 06:45 PM   #11
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well since it's not your child I would have to say it's not your business...I'm not trying to be rude but this mother and the other mother are OK with this I guess and really you aren't going to be able to say anything to change that. She's going to allow whatever she would like in her home so I would say there's nothing you can do
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well since it's not your child I would have to say it's not your business...
I agree. Just know that you would be doing the right thing by not allowing this situation to occur. You don't have to convince anyone else that it's not right.
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I agree. Just know that you would be doing the right thing by not allowing this situation to occur. You don't have to convince anyone else that it's not right.
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I agree that it's none of your business, and not your place to say anything unless she ASKS for your opinion.

That said, in our house there will never be boy-girl sleepovers unless the boy and girl are married. Of course, I'm not expecting my kids to wait until marriage before sex, but that's the ideal we are raising them with. Until then we will not encourage early grandchildren under our roof.
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jtee No, the 16 year old daughter and her 15 year old (3 weeks apart in age) boyfriend are allowed to sleep together in the daughters room.
Thx, I misunderstood.

What I don't understand is the parent's thoughts\reasoning for allowing this. Because the suggestion here is that the parents are allowing them to have sex. If so, is it safe sex?

What about the other boy's parents. What do they think about this arrangement?
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Until then we will not encourage early grandchildren under our roof.
My wife has made very clear with our daughter that she will not be having any children before the age of 18. It's not an issue, but my wife feels very strongly about this for a number of reasons.
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To clarify ... its my girlfriends child and we live together ... and it goes against every bit of my moral fiber ...
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My wife has made very clear with our daughter that she will not be having any children before the age of 18. It's not an issue, but my wife feels very strongly about this for a number of reasons.
Oh, I totally understand! In fact, we will be encouraging our kids to wait to have kids until they are at least in their 20s.
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To clarify ... its my girlfriends child and we live together ... and it goes against every bit of my moral fiber ...

Wow, a tough situation. It totally goes against my moral fiber, too.
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Oh, I totally understand! In fact, we will be encouraging our kids to wait to have kids until they are at least in their 20s.
That is what we have recommended to our daughter, but at 12, being 20+ is a million years from now and no where close to her current reality to make any since to her. She does love babies, but overall we don't anticipate she would ever deliberately try to get pregnant before she is mature enough to handle the responsible of being a parent. There is nothing about our daughter to suggest she'd be mature enough to be a parent before she is in her 20s.
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