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Adolescence/Puberty Discuss What age kids have sex at home ? in the Developmental/Parenting Stages forums; well since it's not your child I would have to say it's not your business...I'm not trying to be rude but this mother and the other ... | | | Why not Register and remove some of the ads from The Parenting Forums
03-12-2008, 06:45 PM
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Children: 2 children, Debra Lyn, and Logan (Bubba) Michael | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | well since it's not your child I would have to say it's not your business...I'm not trying to be rude but this mother and the other mother are OK with this I guess and really you aren't going to be able to say anything to change that. She's going to allow whatever she would like in her home so I would say there's nothing you can do
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03-12-2008, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted by fallon well since it's not your child I would have to say it's not your business... | I agree. Just know that you would be doing the right thing by not allowing this situation to occur. You don't have to convince anyone else that it's not right.
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Children: 2 children, Debra Lyn, and Logan (Bubba) Michael | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Lissa I agree. Just know that you would be doing the right thing by not allowing this situation to occur. You don't have to convince anyone else that it's not right. | exactly 
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03-12-2008, 06:58 PM
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Children: DD (10) and DS (12) | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | I agree that it's none of your business, and not your place to say anything unless she ASKS for your opinion.
That said, in our house there will never be boy-girl sleepovers unless the boy and girl are married.  Of course, I'm not expecting my kids to wait until marriage before sex, but that's the ideal we are raising them with. Until then we will not encourage early grandchildren under our roof. |
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03-12-2008, 07:02 PM
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Children: Jill born Jan 12, 1996 | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | Quote:
Originally Posted by hwnorth jtee No, the 16 year old daughter and her 15 year old (3 weeks apart in age) boyfriend are allowed to sleep together in the daughters room. | Thx, I misunderstood.
What I don't understand is the parent's thoughts\reasoning for allowing this. Because the suggestion here is that the parents are allowing them to have sex. If so, is it safe sex?
What about the other boy's parents. What do they think about this arrangement? |
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03-12-2008, 07:07 PM
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Children: Jill born Jan 12, 1996 | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Trina Until then we will not encourage early grandchildren under our roof. | My wife has made very clear with our daughter that she will not be having any children before the age of 18. It's not an issue, but my wife feels very strongly about this for a number of reasons. |
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03-12-2008, 07:07 PM
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| Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | To clarify ... its my girlfriends child and we live together ... and it goes against every bit of my moral fiber ... |
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03-12-2008, 07:12 PM
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Children: DD (10) and DS (12) | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | Quote:
Originally Posted by jtee My wife has made very clear with our daughter that she will not be having any children before the age of 18. It's not an issue, but my wife feels very strongly about this for a number of reasons. | Oh, I totally understand! In fact, we will be encouraging our kids to wait to have kids until they are at least in their 20s. |
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03-12-2008, 07:13 PM
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Children: DD (10) and DS (12) | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | Quote:
Originally Posted by hwnorth To clarify ... its my girlfriends child and we live together ... and it goes against every bit of my moral fiber ... |
Wow, a tough situation. It totally goes against my moral fiber, too. |
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03-12-2008, 07:20 PM
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Children: Jill born Jan 12, 1996 | Re: What age kids have sex at home ? | | Quote:
Originally Posted by Trina Oh, I totally understand! In fact, we will be encouraging our kids to wait to have kids until they are at least in their 20s. | That is what we have recommended to our daughter, but at 12, being 20+ is a million years from now and no where close to her current reality to make any since to her. She does love babies, but overall we don't anticipate she would ever deliberately try to get pregnant before she is mature enough to handle the responsible of being a parent. There is nothing about our daughter to suggest she'd be mature enough to be a parent before she is in her 20s. |
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