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Old 03-12-2008, 06:02 PM   #1
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Default What age kids have sex at home ?

A debate Im having with another parent of a 16 year old girl and 15 year old boyfriend.

I am against sleepovers (once in a while on the couch is ok), but this parent feels that its ok for the kids to share her bed overnight.

Now Im not so much out of touch to realize that these kids are sexually active with one another, but I still feel that it shouldnt take place in the family home.

So Im curious, other parents .. boyfriend sleep over .... in her bed... ever .. never no matter the age ... opinions with reasoning please
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I don't think it's okay at all. They are children. They should be in separate beds, unless you want grandchildren.
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no...you do not allow children to share a bed a bed under your roof. That's begging to have grandchildren at a young age and irresponsible
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no...you do not allow children to share a bed a bed under your roof. That's begging to have grandchildren at a young age and irresponsible
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NO sleepovers, ever. Share the same bed?! WTH is she thinking?!
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AI am against sleepovers (once in a while on the couch is ok), but this parent feels that its ok for the kids to share her bed overnight.
The 15 & 16 year year old share the same bed as the parent(s)? Can you provide more details. Thx
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No, the 16 year old daughter and her 15 year old (3 weeks apart in age) boyfriend are allowed to sleep together in the daughters room.

What I would like to see in this post is deep reasoning ... I would like to show this parent this threat with reasons .. not just "no way" .. although I DO agree with no way...
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Tell her flat out that you don't want any grandbabies.
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is this your child? if so you don't need to give reasons
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the argument I get there, is that she is on the pill

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no not my child. By giving reasons, I meant to the other parent who finds it acceptable
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