tessera

Thanks for the advice. You're right Jjanet I should discipline my kids from day 1. That's what I have been doing but my husband always take my daughter's side. Whenever I discipline her since she was young my husband will disagree with me in front of her. Until now he still does it, even when I ask my daughter for simple chores, my husband would volunteer to do it for her. So my husband and I always fight because of this and my daughter and my son think that I am always wrong. I love my kids and I would never hurt them. It has been a week now and my daughter has not talked to me yet. I always apologize to my kids whenever I'm wrong. My daughter disrespect me and I'm waiting for her to apologize. I miss her already, the school start next week and I don't want her to get stess out or depress because of this cold treatment. But I don't want to apologize to her first because she's getting use of me saying sorry first. I don't want to talk to her because she would raise her voice again and disrespect me and will end up fighting again. I begged her to control her temper and I don't want us to fight anymore especially in front of her dad because he is very sick. I'm so depress right now and don't think I will be able to handle it anymore. Family probelems, relationship issues and financial issues. I don't know what to do anymore.
I'm so glad that there's a forum like and thank you for all the help.