[Kaytee]

I have to agree with sagemom, you may wnat to look into getting her on some form of birth control. I have a very young daghter so this has not come up in my experience, but if it was me, I think I would make sure that the child knows you are not mad at her, but very concerned for her. She needs to be told right away about stds and things of that nature. She needs to be told by you and your wife. I believe it is very important to keep the dialogue open between you all. I would also make sure my preteen daughter did not have time or oppertunity to be alone with anyone. Weather that be some for of afterschool activity or something. I also think that you need to try to repair your relationship with the boys parents. I amsure they are uncomfortable as well. But this is no ones fault right now, but turning it into something bigger may be devastating to your daughter. She will blame herself, thats just what kids do.