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FooserX · 04-04-2008, 01:09 PM

I also agree that there shouldn't be a problem with you asking his parents...BUT...I can also see his side.

Even though he's probably focusing more on his family...that daughter is still his, and he's going to be attached to her and want to have a say in her well being. It may not be fair since he's not really a full time dad to her, but this is just his way of thinking...

Why not just call him in the future and tell him that you're going to let the grandparents watch him? Would that hurt anyone?

PS - what is a jack and jill?

04-04-2008, 01:09 PM
FooserX PF Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Denver Posts: 2,609 Rep Power: 471 Reputation: 9738 Children: One boy, Bradley	Re: Is it right or wrong to ask my child's father's parents to take her when I need h I also agree that there shouldn't be a problem with you asking his parents...BUT...I can also see his side. Even though he's probably focusing more on his family...that daughter is still his, and he's going to be attached to her and want to have a say in her well being. It may not be fair since he's not really a full time dad to her, but this is just his way of thinking... Why not just call him in the future and tell him that you're going to let the grandparents watch him? Would that hurt anyone? PS - what is a jack and jill?