I am not really sure what to do, but I have been having problems with Bailey and her dad getting along from the beginning, but I still have problems! They cannot be left alone together-she starts screaming and crying and pushing him away. I really am at a loss as to what to do-as a result my husband now resents her somewhat because he just doesn't have the patience to deal with her fits. I understand his point completely-why hold her if she is just going to scream in his face and try and get back to Mommy as soon as possible, but I don't know what to do-she just turned 1 and I know it is probably a phase, but how can I make her understand he is not a bad guy and for him to understand not to take it personally?? As soon as she makes her way back to me-instant happiness and the tears stop! If I give her back to Daddy-instant tantrum-he has never done a thing to harm her so I don't understand her anger with him.
I am beginning to think that for my own sanity that I should start to see a shrink or something because otherwise I am not sure if I am a strong enough person to make this work. I LOVE my husband and I LOVE my daughter, but I am not sure if I could ever choose between the two, but we cannot go on living like we are with everyone mad at each other all the time. Someone please help me......
