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I agree that maybe dad could use some help-but her crying is not just a minute long-it can go on forever sometimes. I am just trying I guess, to figure out who is the bigger problem here-me, dad or baby. I am thinking that it may be me-since I have a tendency to eventually give her what she wants-I just want her to be happy, but maybe I am not the problem-I don't know.......... Anyway I am going to be looking into family therapy I think, if not for me only, it would be great if he would join but I think that is out of the question. I just don't want my husband wishing we had never even had a baby, whichi is the way he seems to be leaning lately-and I don't blame him for that.