Everybody wait a minute here: I am not here for criticism on my parenting skills or my husbands! I came here for help and support. As far as my comment on I don't blame him-I didn't say I agreed with it, but you cannot blame someone for how they feel-it is their feelings and their choice. I LOVE my daughter more than life itself and cannot wait each morning for her to wake up and smile, but I also do the same for my husband and it is a very hard position to be in when one does not seem to like the other. We HAD discussed having children and that is why we did, and no we don't really resent having a baby, just the emotional stress it adds to a marriage. When you have a baby you expect life to be perfect from then on, and then it doesn't always turn out like that-IT'S FRUSTRATING!!!
I don't apprecitate you all assuming that I choose my husband over my daughter than that's what you get for assuming, I should not have to choose a side!! I was looking for advice on what I can do to make the two of them get along together, and help her understand that dad is a GREAT guy!! Thanks for all assuming I am a bad parent here and I will now walk away from this forum, and thanks for all your time.