[hawtmama]

It's not wrong to ask serious questions, and I hope I didn't come across that way. When my son gets old enough to ask about my privates (or his own/whatever), I will explain to him as much as he needs to know at that age.

I don't know that there isn't an exact "cut-off" age, but I do believe that 8 is too old for a daughter to shower with her father. If it works for your family, that's great, but once my son is old enough to remember things like that, I'm going to stop. I certainly am glad that I don't have any memories of my naked father...