[Pixiesticks]

Xero you have my utmost respect. My only advice after it taking so long to realize it in my own life is to not seek your biological mothers approval. You do not need it. You have done an amazing job in improving your life and you now have the chance to give your son what she was never able to give you. Make sure that the two of you are your first priority.

I didn't even think about your biodad because mine was the same way. Bio gave two different men that could be my father but they were two men my parents knew she had dated. The day of the adoption my mother found her crying in the bathroom. She wasn't upset that she was signing off her rights. She was worried that the judge was going to ask her about how active her sex life was and she would have to admit how many men she had slept with in order for the adoption to go through. Sad really. Part of me, somewhere really deep down, actually feels sorry for her.