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His Mother assists them in their lies which is why I do not like her.
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I'd like so say a word in defense of the boy's mother. if he's 17-18 at the time, maybe his mother isn't really keeping track of every time and every friend who is accompanying her son to the mall? or she can be lied to as well?
if it was me in the situation, i'd at least be confused.
i understand you're angry at them for breaking your rule, but on the other hand... what bad can happen in the mall in the daytime? they wouldn't be having sex there or something? and they obviously are not *alone* in the mall. (do we refer to the "mall" here as a giant supermarket where you normally go shopping?)
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Crazy for a girl of 17 to be tied down in a serious relation. Especially since they have not really had any dates except for the Prom 2 years ago and sneaking to the Mall
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would you object so much if it was some other boy?
i'm not harrassing you or trying to disagree to every word. but... if its been going on for what seems now like years, maybe its a signal that really they really care about each other? i mean, if they're willing to face the trouble. other kids might have found "easier" dates. YES, you have full rights to object that realtionship. But maybe you shouldn't completely disregard your daughter's feelings?
By the way, if you're concerned about your daughter meeting other, different people, maybe you and her should try travelling? summer camp? switching schools? volunteering? i know it's a school year, but just some random thoughts.
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And its just an insult for you to suggest that I would be as childish as to help my son go about doing it.
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Xero, i'm suggesting nothing. i thought we're having a debate. i am sorry you took a hypothetical situation so personally.
