[16th ave.]

ok, so she Aint 17. i thought she was since you said she was and didn't say that she was almost 17 in your first post about this whole mess.

let me get this straight now: you have spoken to her, him, And his parents about this and made it clear he and she aint allowed contact. his mom continues to help it happen, encouraging the lying and most likely other sorts of negative behavior such as drinking (just a guess but its possible since there is lying). he wont stay away from a Minor even though he has been told to stay away. she's Still a minor and has been displaying the very behavior you wont accept and shouldn't accept.

the way i see it the only option you've got is to get a restraining order and file charges for statutory rape and file charges against him and his mom for contributing to the delinquincy of a minor. depending on your state, laws were broken from the get go with him being a 17 yr. old then when he turned 18 and his mom was helping him.
with your daughter, i'd suggest getting you and your daughter into counseling together and grounding her from everything until this messy situation can be resolved.
and keep doing your best in supporting her as you normally would even though at times you wont agree with her decisions.


you can do all that if you are not willing to wait and see since your daughter is almost 17 and will be 18 soon enough. depends on you.

after all that, i'd be pretty danged ticked off too.