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Old 02-06-2010, 06:01 PM  
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Default Re: my child caught us having sex

Well... that's a little graphic, but I'll leave it alone I suppose. First of all, the main issue here is that you were doing it in your livingroom like a couple of teenagers. Why on earth didn't you go to your room and shut the door? It doesn't matter what time of day or night it is, if your kids are in the house, the only place you should be having sex (if you're concerned about the safety of your privacy) is in your own bedroom, with the door closed and prefferably locked. If you were going to do it in the livingroom, you could have at least taken the precaution of using a blanket so that if she caught you, it wouldn't look like much. Its pretty vivid what she probably saw, which is kind of unsettling to me. You too, I'm sure. I'm not trying to be mean, but seriously having sex stark naked in your livingroom with your kids in the house was kind of irresponsible.

Well anyway, if she asks you later what you were doing, I think she's still at a safe enough age for you to tell her that you guys were "cuddling" and "hugging". I don't really think its time for the sex talk. Just something simple, that she should accept as an answer.

Either way I'd be a little more careful about where you have sex with your kids in the house, especially with your older daughter. Seeing that kind of thing can be really bad for a little kid, and it really shouldn't happen.
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