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I wish you well Nikki. I think you have chosen to take on a task that many of us (Me) wouldnt even consider.

The only thing I would add. Try and have fun. We all have to do the hard things when necessary. But we also have fun. Even when battling with family we lighten the load every so often.

Somtimes it difficult to shake our heads and tell a joke or make someone smile when there pointed the other direction.

But it's a big part of family.

IMHO

Maybe the best thing you could give is letting here know is your always going be someone to lean on.