[newlittleone10]

I have been divorced for close to three years now. My ex-husband has visitation with his daughter and she gets along with her dad just fine.

I started dating again last year. My bf is very happy to be expecting a child but..he has shown some...red flags about the child I have now.
He is never mean to her...but he has made some comments I'm concerned about.
Because him and I live a few towns away from ea. other we only see each other on weekends usually. Sometime he will come to my place to spend the night.
However, once he said to me that he had an issue (not his exact words) with the "interference" he has to deal with when he does come to see me. When he said that he was clearly referring to my child. Who has a bad habit of not always knocking on my bedroom door b/f she comes in. I'm working on that with her though(she is seven).

Recently, he told me I am already favoring my dauther over his child(I'm still pregnant). This comment was in response to me telling him I needed to factor in child care for my daughter when considering when I would be over his place w/the baby. Since we don't live together I have to make preparations for my other child's school, after school etc when I'm figuring out when I can see him. I don't think that means I am favoring my daughter over the one I'm carrying. This isn't the first time he has made that kind of comment. I get nervous when I hear him say that.....what is he talking about?..Can someone shed some light on this.

Thanks

I'm an only child so maybe I'm missing something here......