[Xero]

If you truly and utterly believe that your wife is a child molester, yes you should get your daughter out of that situation immediately. Her safety and well being come way before her friends and her school. There is no reason good enough to allow her to continue being molested, if that is indeed the case. You have to protect her. I don't understand though, are you two together or not together?? You talk about your wife with kind of a cold air, like you are a perfect stranger or a teacher or at least an ex husband or something. Its confusing.

But if you think this is just a misunderstanding (it could be just something that needs to be talked about) then it REALLY needs to be talked about. She's your wife. Why can't you talk to her? Your daughter deserves this to be talked about. She has told you it happens. She can't deny it, especially not if you approach the topic gently and don't label it as anything, and if your daughter is there with you to confirm it. You need to approach this as a family LONG before you involve proffessionals, don't you think? Obviously, if she denies it and makes a big deal about it and things get worse, then you can take the next steps of contacting children services and applying for full custody etc. I feel like you're going out of order here.