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In that case I (and its just my opinion) would have a meeting (face to face) with the school nurse. They know the criteria and should be able to evaluate your daughter on the sly so to speak. I would tell them just what you told us you aren't sure but have strong feelings that this may be happening. Like I said they are trained on how to deal with this. And what to look for.

I would let them be the "bad guys" so as not to put any future divorce proceedings in jeopardy. And if it were me I would do it ASAP like Monday.

From what I am reading it might not be a bad idea to back up your hard drive and save anything that might be considered evidence prior to the poop hitting the fan. And remember once the ball is rolling it could very well roll over you.

IMHO

good luck

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