Need advice.. 8.5 year old has terrible fits.
My 8.5 year old daughter is well adjusted, does well in school, has lots of friends, sociable, makes friends in minutes, strives to be the teacher's pet.
But, she has incredible fits during which she turns off all sense of reason. These can occur once or twice a day.
What has gotten me concerned is that during fits she can run out of the house, cross a street, and she has said during a fit that she "wants to die".(RED FLAGS) she will also kick her mother, yell, cry etc.
To precipitate a fit, anything can happen, Eg. someone knocked over some of her books, her brother makes a weird face at her, parents ask her to put something downstairs, got the white cookie and not the brown one.
Trying to reason with her during a fit, promising a reward if she can get over it, or punishment if she can't, have all been mostly ineffective.
After a fit, we can reason with her and she will apologize.
Any experience with this? Any suggestions?
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