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Whats your opinion....
I've just been thinking about a situation (kinda) that a girl i know is in, and thought i would ask your opinions. first ill give you some background.
I grew up with a guy, well call him C. he was married to a girl named J, they have two kids together, are still friends, but are divorced. I also grew up with a girl named A. A and J were really close friends, always hung out. about a year ago, A slept with C. (bad bad bad.) But A also slept with another guy around the same time (lets call him T). She got pregnant. Her and J no longer talk, and rightfully so. All through her pregnancy, she told T he was the father. I'm guessing (but not sure) that near the time she gave birth, she told T he wasnt the father and that C was. So baby girl Savannah has C's last name, but is a spitting image of T. I just think this is such a messed up situation, like really. It erks me to think that she played two guys, one which already pays support for 2 kids. Whats your views all!!!!
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03-10-2010, 10:50 PM
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Re: Whats your opinion....
Wow, pretty messed up situation. Frankly, in C's shoes, I'd demand a paternity test before handing over one cent.
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03-11-2010, 12:30 AM
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Re: Whats your opinion....
If any of the men have the slighest brain power they would have paternity tests, but if C wishes to be an idiot, then thats his choice.
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03-11-2010, 06:55 AM
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Re: Whats your opinion....
I agree with both^^^.
While she should have known better, at the end of the day the men need to take care of themselves.
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03-11-2010, 07:15 AM
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Re: Whats your opinion....
uh huh, yep.
paternity test in order... all 3 sound like fools. she is for sleeping around and lying and not even taking responsibility for her actions and them for not making sure the kid is their's. the guys are getting played right now but eventually she'll get played too.
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03-11-2010, 12:09 PM
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Re: Whats your opinion....
Thanks guys! thats my view too! Im not good enough friends with A to tell her this, we are just childhood acquaintences now. But i find that the situation is so stupid!
Cant wait to see what Xero has to say  hehe
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Re: Whats your opinion....
Yep, paternity test is a must.
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03-11-2010, 01:43 PM
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Re: Whats your opinion....
so, are A and J still close friends? I'm guessing not.
The one I wonder about is poor Savannah C, where does she end up in the whole gamee a bunch of stupid adults are playing? Child support aside, does she end up with a daddy that loves her...I would go one, but i start to get opinionated... |
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A and J are DEFINATELY not on speaking terms, as they were best friends but A proceeded to sleep and get impregnated with her exhusband.. so so so bad!
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Re: Whats your opinion....
Jerry!jerry!jerry!
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