Oh my god

[Antoinette]

okay, so without going into too many details.

i had sex with tim. and afterwards we noticed that the condom wasn't as full as it should be. anyway there appeared to be some kind of tear in it.
this is CLEARLY not a good thing...... i am not on the pill. and i cannot have another baby...

haha so much for not going into details ay

[IADad]

oh my....

Well, you did spare a few details like foreplay and who was on top...LOL but um yeah, so don't stress over it yet. I mean what's done is done, right, you can't mend the condom and put the semen back in, so, the risk is there, but not every "interlude" results in a pregnancy right, so let's hope this one passes you by. In the mean time, take care of yourself, start taking your folic acid and vitamins in case you are starting to grow a little one, and let's hope for the best, okay?

[Jeremy+3]

As you're breast feeding you're unlikely to become pregnant

[sbattisti]

What's the fun of this without the details?

Just kidding. Deep breaths, and hope for the best, but don't panic!

There's always a certain amount of risk of pregnancy except in some extreme scenarios. You might want to take this opportunity to consider whether the fun outweighs the risks for you at this particular time in your life. (Not that I've ever proven particularly good at that...) Lots of fun things you could do that don't carry the same risk...

Let us know what happens!

[xox.ilu.xox]

oh gosh! :S lets hope for the best Antoinette. and Like Jeremy said, if ur still breastfeeding Allegra, you may be off the hook! Keep us up to date!

xox

[stjohnjulie]

No to scare the crap out of you...but with my first, I got pregnant while on the pill and I had my period! Sometimes things are just meant to be. Take deep breaths and try not to freak out.

[NancyM]

OMG Antoinette,
I'm embarrassed to say that I never would have noticed any of that.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you though.

[Jeremy+3]

If you didn't get him to get STD tested before you've had sex you need to do that anyway, so you can ask them to do blood screen for pregnancy as well. Hep B and HIV can be transmitted through breast milk, herpes and HPV can be contracted through mere skin to skin contact in the infected area, if he has been tested still go as obviously men cannot be tested for HPV.

I think I just turned sex into the unsexiest thing ever.

[superman]

shit that blows... lol.

[singledad]

Originally Posted by Jeremy+3

If you didn't get him to get STD tested before you've had sex you need to do that anyway, so you can ask them to do blood screen for pregnancy as well. Hep B and HIV can be transmitted through breast milk, herpes and HPV can be contracted through mere skin to skin contact in the infected area, if he has been tested still go as obviously men cannot be tested for HPV.

Yes. I'd be much more worried about STDs than a possible pregnancy...

Also have to agree with sbattisti - maybe its time to think long and hard about the risks involved with sex, and whether or not they are worth it.

You know that if you are pregnant, you WILL find a way to cope. That's what parent's do. And by the sound of it this guy is at least a majour step up from the other two kids' dad.