bf children

[kelly1981]

i love my bf alan's 3 children to peices his 2 younger grls who are 9and 10 are the same and relly lovley towards mebut his 16 years old cant seem to accept in with her dad even though he has been with some 1 esle(the children of the 10 and 8 year old) before me.

we have been going out 4 years now. no reasons at all why she does not like me, her dad has tried talkin 2 her so has her nanny(dad's mum) ect but she jsut says that im horrible but jade and tempest bf other 2 children love me to peices they live with us and there mum has nothing to do with them really. karla however still lives with her real mum(not the same person as jade and tepests mum). all i dont want alot from her even her being civil to me would be nice as she does not even do that.

[Kaytee]

she probably feels you are taking her moms place. She doesn't want a new mom she has one already. I amsure that is not what you are doing, but to her that is what it might seem like. Also children always have the hopes that their parents will get back together so they can be the "old" family they once were. With you having a baby by her father and all that you are ruining those chnaces.
Again I don't think you are doing this but to a child it may seem that way.
I don't have much advise to give, sorry