Recent content by Johndoe

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    Is this a tic?...

    I scoured the net and came up with a few other possibilities. Allergies, Tonsils, Stress, Acid reflux. I'm with Xero on the humidifier - give it a go...doesnt hurt to try till you speak to the ENT. at least if it doesnt work you can tell them as they might end up suggesting it anyway-saves time...
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    Scheduling...

    Thank you...im super pumped and a little nervous to start training in a couple days. That's a good idea... I'll ask them a couple weeks into training after I've established a good relation with them. Ya employers love when people actually want to work weekends lol. Ill aim for working Friday...
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    Scheduling...

    Currently I had to move 25 minutes away to my mothers because after 3 years of being a primary caretaker and then getting kicked into the trash with no money and a ageing resume made it tough to get a job within the 3 month time frame of the notice she gave the property manager. Fortunately and...
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    Trouble with Grandparents babysitting...

    Totally agree with Xero ''its not up to you to develop relationships between your child and her grandparents. Its up to them.'' Like any type of relationship- it's a 2 way street, so obviously some effort is needed on your part for her, but ultimately I don't think I would be bending over...
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    Scheduling...

    The ex and I currently have about (me)40/60(her) schedule going with a aim from me for 50/50. 40/60 is perfectly fine with me, I just aim for 50/50 because the more I give the more I know she will take. She is really trying to push me to be a every other weekend dad. Which I will never agree...
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    help please...

    ya I think your right about not sharing this. I actually did try the calling her suggestion and it blew up in my face, which in turn caused me to hit up google and find you guys lol. Normally my son's expression about his mom and dad and home are done in a whiny sad voice, but last night when...
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    help please...

    WOW thank you everyone for all the replies. I've put this website on my bookmark bar as I would like to be active. I dont know how much I can help - You people are pros lol but I can try. Oh and I'm wondering if I should copy and paste this good stuff in wordpad and send it to her..might help...
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    help please...

    wow I think your right about the denial, feeling guilty, and we wouldnt want that. I think you nailed it lol. Lots of times I sum everything up to her just being nuts too. Ever since she gave birth. I thought (and her by the way, only in the first few months though) that hormones and or...
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    help please...

    Oh and in brief moments when she does actually believe these are his feelings...she says ''that was 3 months ago-he shouldnt still be acting or feeling like this''.
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    help please...

    Thank you for the replies. They are very helpful in confirming my thoughts and yas are right that I shouldnt even bother feeding into it. Just a little tough not to try and defend when my parenthood is being attacked.
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    help please...

    I dont know if Im in the right place for this but ill give it a shot and make it as short as possible My son is 3 years old. His mother and i seperated Jan,1/11 so 3 months ago. over the past 3 months my son has been saying ''Mom, Dad, Home" in a very sad manner. I find this heartbreaking but I...
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    Does your child look like you?...

    when my son was born everyone said he looked like his mom, now he is 3 and everyone says he looks like me..yayy me lol
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    Who's in charge? Not me......

    this is good readings. my son is 3 and i feel like im getting owned lol i better take notes.
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    How Much Screen Time for Kids?...

    my 3 year old watches 0-3 shows through-out the day...and lots of those shows are only 15 minutes. and because i know his focus is on many other things and doesnt watch any some days- there are times when he just wants to relax and watch a few in a row. as long as i see a healthy balance going...
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    Wife still sleeping with 1-year-old...

    so my advise is either put them in the crib from day 1 OR if your a little to paronoid like me and need to check on them to make sure their still breathing every 20 min lol - then have them in the bed with yas but set a date as to when the little one MUST go in crib..Id say no longer then 6...