Recent content by saffire

Thanks this was so weird. I see where the dates are oops.

Sex is about 2 percent of a relationship the rest is respect, responsability responding to a persons real needs not sexual it is caring and loving . wHAT GOALS DO YOU HAVE TO SUPPORT YOU AND YOUR GIRL FRIEND IN THE FUTURE and how is school going for both of you? Sex is beautiful in a loving...

Parenting does not mean controling. It means being present and it means being there ... guiding, I may not have liked his last girl friend in some ways but I bit my lip a lot. Its over and my son and I have a good relation. Had I interfered I think it would have pushed him to her. I would have...

At 19 I would not be kicking her out but I would be spendiing time with her to give her options. She can make the choice to do something or not but there is a consequence. ie if you are doing drugs you have to make the choice. You can quit and live at home or your can do drugs and and drink...

When my son was three he use to ride his magic horse when we where in a store. One day the sales lady pretended to hold the rein and she said whoa horsey your beutiful just stand still. My son quibbed back mommy she sees her too.

I raised a son and I always knew what he was doing because we communicated a lot. There where family conferances every Friday for an hour at the most and there where boundries about friends being over. Sounds like boundries where not in place for a long time but assertivley they can be set...

I am a mother of an adult, His girl friend broke up with him for the third time because she blames him that she is not happy. He is devestated but its day one. Its hard not to attatch when they are in pain and just listen. Hate seeing him in pain, and he does not deserve this. Just doing quiet...