Recent content by tankntorimom

It's a toss up between White Christmas and Let it Snow.

I am trying to figure out how to word this without sounding condescending or judgmental, I understand your fears (I think). First and foremost, it is perfectly normal to be terrified, when my first was born I made my husband carry him in stores, because I was afraid of dropping him. Having only...

I agree to a point about it being "a deal breaker", I think it seems pretty selfish of her to force this choice solely on you. On the other hand, I have flip flopped on the idea of more children, that is something that I believe every parent goes through while raising them. I don't think that 42...

Thank you, I have been considering it for myself, I just don't seem to have the time. The therapist and I have come up with a few ways to try keeping her calm, I am hoping that the outbursts will subside, we are only about 2 months into therapy.

Yes, we only found out because he came forward. She did not come forward until she was told that she never had to see him again.

We do know who he is, she has not seen or spoken to him since it all came about.

I'm new here, so I will provide some background. I am a single mother of two, a 9 year old boy, and a soon to be 7 year old girl. My husband of 10 years left last January, and my children have seen him twice in the last 12 months. The changes in our family, and lifestyle have been considerable...