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My girls just voted for Cars! haha

My wife and I were also thinking of what could have happened when my daughter lived with her mom. She wont tell us and my ex-wife wont tell me so I can only assume that things couldn't have been good. My daughter has always been able to tell me things before. She has started to open up a bit...

Take this morning as a perfect example of what has to happen on a daily basis for this girl to eat.. Note, this only works with me. With my wife, she doesn't even do this, just goes straight to throwing up. This morning our girls, around 9am, decided to come and get us and let us know that they...

So I read everywhere that spanking is really bad for kids, in many different ways and can possibly lead you to jail. If you're trying to discipline a kid who is just determined to not listen and be defiant the entire time, what would you do to them instead of spanking them?

Yea.. I've been trying these things for the past few days and it seems to only make things worse now. HA. She doesn't want to eat at all and now whenever I stand there to make her eat, she just throws it up.. She is now up to 2 times a day where this happens.. GAH FML.

Yup.. Going to try these things. Hopefully they can help. Thanks for the info.

She has always lived with me since she was born. Her mom would stop by and say hi but never really stay. She would stay with her mom on the weekends and whenever i had to work late nights. There would be months where her mom would disappear and not see her for weeks at a time. This was how it...

Oh yea.. A bit more information. She does this type of behavior each day and has been doing this for 90+ days now, straight. I've tried sitting her down and talking to her but it's like nothing gets through. She just stares at us blankly and just repeats back what we say. If we ask her why...

Alright.. Here is some background info. I have a 5 year old daughter with my 2nd ex-wife. Her mom left he when she was about 6 months old and basically came in and out of her life for the past 4 years. Now her mom has moved states and never comes around and never visits. She did live with her...

Hi. Welcome to the forum. Gotta love upping your post count. lol Good luck on the advice. Seems to be much info here.

Welcome to the forum!

Hmm.. Hard topic to get into. Personally I was spanked until I learned how to not let my parents find out about the things I did. HA. This lasted for me until I was about 15 or so.. For my girls, I try not to spank them unless they do something really bad.. I don't see things going crazy but...

I'd go with Cars just cause I am guy and that appeals to me more than Winnie. Now I am not saying Winnie isn't for guys, just not me.

Man.. Quitting like that is insane. I've heard some people say it works and some say it doesn't work. Good luck!

Hello all. I found this forum while searching for answers on google. I have 2 daughters and 2 step daughters. I have a full house of girls. HAHA. Looking forward to finding help and some good tips on parenting here..