My four year old refuses to poop in the potty. She will pee, most of the time, but not poop. We have had problems with constipation and she voluntarily withholds. I have almost gotten it to where she will at least poop in a pullup, but sometimes she goes in her panties a little bit. Is it mean to make her rinse out her own panties?<EMOJI seq="1f615"></EMOJI>