My boyfriend's four year old son, as of late, has been refusing to talk and express his feelings lately.
Anytime he gets even slightly upset about something(that's an assumption) he starts to make a whiney sound, kicks his feet, and rubs his hands together. I tried to talk to him in a nice, calm voice. I ask him what's wrong. I try to list a few things that might be wrong. I tell him I can't help him unless he can tell me. So far nothing works.
He's been doing this a lot lately. When I first met him, he did it constantly but I broke him in and for most of the past year and a half he hasn't done it. I'm wondering if it might have anything to do with his mom, since he was like that before I met him, and now he's doing it again since he spent most of last month with her. From what I've heard, she acts that way too. When he's not upset, he actually has an extensive vocabulary. I'm trying to get him to communicate what it is that makes him act that way, and to get him to stop acting that way so often. (Think 10 to 15 times a day, literally.) His behavior makes us(me, daddy, sister) late to many things. Should I just continue talking to him or is there something more someone can suggest that I can do?
Anytime he gets even slightly upset about something(that's an assumption) he starts to make a whiney sound, kicks his feet, and rubs his hands together. I tried to talk to him in a nice, calm voice. I ask him what's wrong. I try to list a few things that might be wrong. I tell him I can't help him unless he can tell me. So far nothing works.
He's been doing this a lot lately. When I first met him, he did it constantly but I broke him in and for most of the past year and a half he hasn't done it. I'm wondering if it might have anything to do with his mom, since he was like that before I met him, and now he's doing it again since he spent most of last month with her. From what I've heard, she acts that way too. When he's not upset, he actually has an extensive vocabulary. I'm trying to get him to communicate what it is that makes him act that way, and to get him to stop acting that way so often. (Think 10 to 15 times a day, literally.) His behavior makes us(me, daddy, sister) late to many things. Should I just continue talking to him or is there something more someone can suggest that I can do?