My daughter's mom and I split up before she turned 1. Her mom used to say one of the problems with kids learning to talk is that they tell everyone your business. With in the last year B, who is now 5, has been telling her mom that I have been saying stuff about her. I have tried to step back and see what I could possibly be saying and who to that she is overhearing. I have become very concious of what I say around her. Just today I recieved a long email from her mom saying that I called her fat to B. She is very upset about this, as well she should be had it actually happened. I rarely talk about her to my daughter and have never disgussed her weight/size. She wouldn't tell me what exactly she said or in what context, just not to talk to B about it because she
"would be devastated if she knew I was talking to you about this. She has told me numerous times she doesn't want you to "get in trouble" for saying bad things about mommy."I have no idea how to handle this. My ex doesn't believe a word I say and I have no clue where my daughter gets these ideas. Any advice on handeling this?