My step-son is in kindergarten and has been having issues all year with kids at school. At first one was bullying him but we worked with the teachers and the other little boys parents an they are now at least friendly to each other. This was at the beginning of the year.
About half way through year he started making up stories of a little boy hitting him and picking on him even told the teacher trying to get sent home. He was using this as an excuse to not go to school and wanted to stay home and play with his cousins (who live in the same house). Of course we made him go and talked to the teacher, there wasn't any kid hitting him or picking on him.
Now we have been informed there is another little boy that he is pretty much petrified of. According to the teachers the little boy hasn't done anythign to my step-son, he's just rather hyper active. The school pyschologist has been observing my step-son for a few weeks now. It is clearly affecting his whole school day, he hides his face from the kid and has started requesting only peanut butter sandwiches so he can sit at the peanut butter table at lunch. He's figured out that this little boy doesnt bring peanut butter sandwiches, this is how far his planning goes to stay away from the little boy.
My step-sons mother and I have both talked to him asked him why he doesnt like him, we let him know he can tell us anything and that he should tell us if he's hurting him or being mean but he can't even tell us 1 thing the kid has done to him. Even if you ask how his day was he'll say it was good but then his teacher will say he had a bad day.
Is this a normal thing to have happen? Anyone have any suggestions on how we can help him at home? I know at school they are going to start doing activites with the two boys, so I think that will help but I'm concerned with what will happen when he goes to first grade and there is a whole new set of kids.
About half way through year he started making up stories of a little boy hitting him and picking on him even told the teacher trying to get sent home. He was using this as an excuse to not go to school and wanted to stay home and play with his cousins (who live in the same house). Of course we made him go and talked to the teacher, there wasn't any kid hitting him or picking on him.
Now we have been informed there is another little boy that he is pretty much petrified of. According to the teachers the little boy hasn't done anythign to my step-son, he's just rather hyper active. The school pyschologist has been observing my step-son for a few weeks now. It is clearly affecting his whole school day, he hides his face from the kid and has started requesting only peanut butter sandwiches so he can sit at the peanut butter table at lunch. He's figured out that this little boy doesnt bring peanut butter sandwiches, this is how far his planning goes to stay away from the little boy.
My step-sons mother and I have both talked to him asked him why he doesnt like him, we let him know he can tell us anything and that he should tell us if he's hurting him or being mean but he can't even tell us 1 thing the kid has done to him. Even if you ask how his day was he'll say it was good but then his teacher will say he had a bad day.
Is this a normal thing to have happen? Anyone have any suggestions on how we can help him at home? I know at school they are going to start doing activites with the two boys, so I think that will help but I'm concerned with what will happen when he goes to first grade and there is a whole new set of kids.