Parents are more stressed than ever in dealing with their children's
problems. Discover how to improve your child's behavior immediately in
less than 30 days;
Do your kids talk back to you or ignore you? Have they kicked and hit
you? Do you feel helpless and out of control yourself when it comes to
your children's behavior?
Do you find yourself yelling at your kids or locking yourself in the
bathroom and crying? Is disciplining your children a nightmare?
If so, I am here to tell you that it is not your fault! Kids
everywhere are treating their parents with disrespect. Kids who
disrespect their parents also disrespect their teachers, law
enforcement and anyone who is making rules and telling them what to do.
You have the power to change this behavior. But in order to do this
you must put a stop to behaviors such as back talk, interrupting, face
making and other negative body language.
There are two techniques you can use depending on the child's age.
For children 3 to 10 years old use my version of Time Out.
This is a warning system based on 3 chances. If the child persists the
child is sent to a designated time out zone in your home. A timer is
set to the child's age. If the child objects, cries, screams, leave
the time out zone, the timer is reset to the beginning.
For children over 10 years of age
Simply stating what you expect will be enough. "Do not speak to me
that way." or "Do not interrupt me." Or "Do not make that face."
You have to keep saying it and you must remain calm and not give up
until s/he stops the behavior. If you keep repeating one of these
sentences to your child, with your poker face on, s/he will stop. Your
child will be so shocked that you are following through and not
looking or sounding angry.
Do not let this behavior slide. So pick a day that you are rested to
start commanding
the respect you deserve.
http://www.parentingpowers.com/takebacksystem.htm
problems. Discover how to improve your child's behavior immediately in
less than 30 days;
Do your kids talk back to you or ignore you? Have they kicked and hit
you? Do you feel helpless and out of control yourself when it comes to
your children's behavior?
Do you find yourself yelling at your kids or locking yourself in the
bathroom and crying? Is disciplining your children a nightmare?
If so, I am here to tell you that it is not your fault! Kids
everywhere are treating their parents with disrespect. Kids who
disrespect their parents also disrespect their teachers, law
enforcement and anyone who is making rules and telling them what to do.
You have the power to change this behavior. But in order to do this
you must put a stop to behaviors such as back talk, interrupting, face
making and other negative body language.
There are two techniques you can use depending on the child's age.
For children 3 to 10 years old use my version of Time Out.
This is a warning system based on 3 chances. If the child persists the
child is sent to a designated time out zone in your home. A timer is
set to the child's age. If the child objects, cries, screams, leave
the time out zone, the timer is reset to the beginning.
For children over 10 years of age
Simply stating what you expect will be enough. "Do not speak to me
that way." or "Do not interrupt me." Or "Do not make that face."
You have to keep saying it and you must remain calm and not give up
until s/he stops the behavior. If you keep repeating one of these
sentences to your child, with your poker face on, s/he will stop. Your
child will be so shocked that you are following through and not
looking or sounding angry.
Do not let this behavior slide. So pick a day that you are rested to
start commanding
the respect you deserve.
http://www.parentingpowers.com/takebacksystem.htm
