Tim and i have been together for about 10 nearly 11 months. we started dating only a few feeks after Alegra was born.
lately he has been bringing up having a baby quite a lot. i am 19 he is 23 and he keeps saying he wants a baby by 25. i however already have two children to consider and if i waited till he was 25 that would make me 21, make Felix 4 and Alegra 3.
i don't know how much i want another one this soon though i wanted to wait at least till Felix was in school so i got a little break, and so Felix would better understand the concept of having a baby and be able to cope with it better. because with Alegra he was so young to him she has always been around and they are so rough with one another i don't want him to be like that with a baby.
it is such a big deal for me and i want the next one to be very planned and for us to be very prepared. i mean we don't even live together yet and haven't even ben together a year. it is very early to be thinking about having a baby together isn't it?
lately he has been bringing up having a baby quite a lot. i am 19 he is 23 and he keeps saying he wants a baby by 25. i however already have two children to consider and if i waited till he was 25 that would make me 21, make Felix 4 and Alegra 3.
i don't know how much i want another one this soon though i wanted to wait at least till Felix was in school so i got a little break, and so Felix would better understand the concept of having a baby and be able to cope with it better. because with Alegra he was so young to him she has always been around and they are so rough with one another i don't want him to be like that with a baby.
it is such a big deal for me and i want the next one to be very planned and for us to be very prepared. i mean we don't even live together yet and haven't even ben together a year. it is very early to be thinking about having a baby together isn't it?