Hello everyone, this is my first post here. I will get right to the point with this post and I apologise, it is long. I have an 18 year old son who graduated from high school last May, he started college in August, he was going to a State University(big bucks), I popped for a parent loan, over $6,000.00 for his to go. He lasted about 6 weeks quit going to classes, started smoking, drinking, etc. The deal was that I would help him financially as long as his grades stayed above a C. Needless to say he quit his campus job, quit going to classes and eventually dropped out of school. I've heard all the comments the"school is not for everyone", great it may not be but it would have been nice to hear that from him before plopping down 6 g's. I wanted him to go to the local Community College, but he insisted he wanted to go to this school. So he moves back home, I'm really not happy with him and told him no more financial help with school from me from now on. Told him he had until Dec 1 to get a job or move out, that came and went and no job. I have kicked him out for a week for stealing money from me. Only reason he still lives is because of him mother(needless to say we are having disagreements). 3 Weeks ago he finally got a full time job, with health insurance, vacations, etc. lots of work, had 70 plus whours the first week. I thought this is great, he is starting to be responsible. Last week he was sick one day(flu), since then he has only worked one day. Today I was in the office that dispatches him, other business and I learn that he was fired for not showing up for work. I called my wife and spoke to her and told her to talk to him, becuase if I did it may have come to blows. I'm going to tell him to pack his S*&^ and get out when I get home from work, It's time to grow up. Any ideas on other ways to handle this. Thanks Mark:arghh: