Well, hello everybody. I hope that I'm in the right section. I'm here to vent about my oldest daughter, Bailey. Some of you may know me. I haven't been around the forum in a couple of months. Right now, is a VERY hectic time in life. My oldest son is having a baby, and I have a pair of twins to look after. My husband is at work all day. And, dear, dear Bailey is giving me headaches.
Bailey has always been a good girl. She's a great student, she's talented, athletic, funny, she has a good job, a great boyfriend, she's pretty. She's a really good person. But lately, she's just not the Bailey we know and love. It started in mid-July. About a month after she started dating Aaron. I know I sound lame but I want to give the full story. We didn't like Aaron at first. He's very opposite of our girl. Let me say this in the nicest way I can...he's not the sharpest tool in the toolbox. He's extremely good-looking. But our girl has never been shallow. She has always went for the smart and sweet type. But every since Aaron has been around. It's been constant drama. She's gone to parties. She came home intoxicated. She's doing good in school. But her grades have dropped about 5%. Constantly ragging on her sister. She hasn't been helpful like she used to be. She quit playing sports. Spending her money on junk. We've caught her sneaking out with her boyfriend. She's lost friends. And not to be rude. But we think it has something to do with her boyfriend. His family is sketchy. But what can we do, forbid our 17 year old who's been otherwise responsible to stop seeing her boyfriend? It's upsetting. Hunter has been trying to convince her to stay away from Aaron. That he's bad news. Hunter talked to Aaron. I have never seen my son be so mad in my life. I have never seen him be so vicious as when he talked to Aaron. We don't know how to stop this behaviour. She's never given us problems before. So we're having a hard time disciplining Bailey. Can someone please give us some tips on how to help her? CAN we FORBID her from seeing her boyfriend? Should we? And we're scared that the inevitable will happen. That she will get pregnant with Aaron. We don't want her to make this mistake. So far, we haven't caught her and Aaron having sex. We don't know if she has. She's not that type of girl. But, we realize she's 17 and thinks she loves this guy. And thinks that he loves her too. So it's bound to happen. It might of already. We don't know what happened when she snuck out. But he has a craving for her. And they make out in front of us and do the PDA thing. It seems like Aaron can't keep his hands off her. And this really bothers Jace. This is just not like Bailey. Help! How can we put the pieces back together? I miss my best friend.
Bailey has always been a good girl. She's a great student, she's talented, athletic, funny, she has a good job, a great boyfriend, she's pretty. She's a really good person. But lately, she's just not the Bailey we know and love. It started in mid-July. About a month after she started dating Aaron. I know I sound lame but I want to give the full story. We didn't like Aaron at first. He's very opposite of our girl. Let me say this in the nicest way I can...he's not the sharpest tool in the toolbox. He's extremely good-looking. But our girl has never been shallow. She has always went for the smart and sweet type. But every since Aaron has been around. It's been constant drama. She's gone to parties. She came home intoxicated. She's doing good in school. But her grades have dropped about 5%. Constantly ragging on her sister. She hasn't been helpful like she used to be. She quit playing sports. Spending her money on junk. We've caught her sneaking out with her boyfriend. She's lost friends. And not to be rude. But we think it has something to do with her boyfriend. His family is sketchy. But what can we do, forbid our 17 year old who's been otherwise responsible to stop seeing her boyfriend? It's upsetting. Hunter has been trying to convince her to stay away from Aaron. That he's bad news. Hunter talked to Aaron. I have never seen my son be so mad in my life. I have never seen him be so vicious as when he talked to Aaron. We don't know how to stop this behaviour. She's never given us problems before. So we're having a hard time disciplining Bailey. Can someone please give us some tips on how to help her? CAN we FORBID her from seeing her boyfriend? Should we? And we're scared that the inevitable will happen. That she will get pregnant with Aaron. We don't want her to make this mistake. So far, we haven't caught her and Aaron having sex. We don't know if she has. She's not that type of girl. But, we realize she's 17 and thinks she loves this guy. And thinks that he loves her too. So it's bound to happen. It might of already. We don't know what happened when she snuck out. But he has a craving for her. And they make out in front of us and do the PDA thing. It seems like Aaron can't keep his hands off her. And this really bothers Jace. This is just not like Bailey. Help! How can we put the pieces back together? I miss my best friend.