My daughter is almost 19. She is home for the summer after her first year at college. Now that she has had a taste of freedom and independence living at the dorm, she is pushing back a lot at home. For the most part, I don't interfere in her business. She goes out with friends and does her own thing but I draw the line at certain things. For one thing she had a male friend over and hung out with him in a separate private part of the house. Didn't introduce him to me or my husband. I was not comfortable with that but she really thinks that since she's an adult, i can't tell her what to do tho I told her boys can not stay over...her girlfriends can but not boys. I'm old fashioned and religious. She does not agree with my views and thinks I'm way too traditional but I was raised to be respectful of the family home. The other thing is she dresses very provocatively. I understand she wants to look trendy but these very short shorts and low cut tops are over the top. When I tell her how inappropriate her outfits are she flips out. I tell her it's not smart to dress that way because people will get the wrong idea. I don't know how much I can say or do about that. I tell her for her safety she really should wear more appropriate clothing. I mean why wear shorts so short her cheeks are showing..She is very obsessed with Beyonce, cardi b, and their videos are obscene. Should I intervene in the way she dresses? She uses her own money she saved up from working. I just feel sick at how much she changed! She used to be very well mannered and respectful and go to church. Now with social media and all the influences she has really changed. Also, I hate the language she uses now. I don't curse but she really does. I tell her to watch her mouth and she says she doesn't care. She plays the "I'm 18" card. What would you do? I'm so hurt