Since my daughter has been swamped with different doctor appointments and we are going through some sort of throat infection/cold thing, she's missed a lot of school. But she has come across a couple of disturbing rumors some of her enemies have started amongst her friends. The most recent one being that she's pregnant. It's completely ridiculous, as her guidance counselor told her. However, it's still making her afraid to go back to school (she's there today and that's when we brought it to the attention of the guidance counselor. But she does not want to go back there. She has had a difficult year at this school all because of 2 girls. She says the other kids in other grades stare at her chest and her bottom ( she is a very conservative dresser: wears regular T-shirts, and lots of layers, long pants or long shorts. But she was a very early developer and is quite curvy.). It's to the point that she wants to switch to another school.
I'm conflicted about this. I want her to be comfortable and be able to focus on her education, while being surrounded by peers who respect her and are accepting of her. At the same time, I don't want to teach that running or hiding from issues are the solution or that the problems will go away. I'm also apprehensive of her switching because she will be the new kid, with the strange style, and she will have a harder time fitting in. At least with her current school, she's surrounded by people who have known her since grade 4. But I don't want her to have another bad year next year. She needs a fresh start without the baggage from this year. She only has one more year at this school before she starts going to the big high school. I'm so conflicted.
I'm conflicted about this. I want her to be comfortable and be able to focus on her education, while being surrounded by peers who respect her and are accepting of her. At the same time, I don't want to teach that running or hiding from issues are the solution or that the problems will go away. I'm also apprehensive of her switching because she will be the new kid, with the strange style, and she will have a harder time fitting in. At least with her current school, she's surrounded by people who have known her since grade 4. But I don't want her to have another bad year next year. She needs a fresh start without the baggage from this year. She only has one more year at this school before she starts going to the big high school. I'm so conflicted.