When I was 6, I loved art supplies, dolls, barbies, and stuffed animals. If I found myself somewhere without a toy, I'd collect rocks and pretend they were little people. Once I even played with stalks of grass. But my daughter... she has never played with anything. I can't think of a single toy she has ever actually played with. She does like me to play with her toys - essentially putting on a show for her. But all she wants is attention. She won't play with anything unless I'm right there watching and communicating. She even did this as a baby. She wouldn't play with her rattles or anything unless I shook it for her. I could coax her to shake it for a few seconds, but then she was done. My parents said she'd outgrow it, but she never did. They said she'd start playing and entertaining herself, but she is 6 and still doesn't. She does seem to like tactile activities, like climbing, jumping, somersaults, and just about any other active play... just like when she was a baby. But she doesn't do any play-acting on her own. Is this normal?
I have a three-year-old boy who will play for up to an hour without consulting me at all. Even my 15-month-old gets curious about objects and investigates them for quite awhile without crying or climbing on me or otherwise soliciting help. And that's pretty much how I remember myself and my siblings being as kids. Are there really some kids who actually don't enjoy playing ever?
I have a three-year-old boy who will play for up to an hour without consulting me at all. Even my 15-month-old gets curious about objects and investigates them for quite awhile without crying or climbing on me or otherwise soliciting help. And that's pretty much how I remember myself and my siblings being as kids. Are there really some kids who actually don't enjoy playing ever?