MomoJA said:
I'm guessing it's that zero tolerance thing. I think everyone knows that he is not a threat to anyone, but the law is the law. A child reports a parent for "abuse," it is recorded, regardless of what happens before or after that. You have an assault record, you can't be around children. No allowances for extenuating circumstances are legally allowed. As long as the laws are written the way they are, no one can really be blamed for him losing his job. The laws would have to be ammended. Their hands are tied by the laws.
Yeah, I kinda agrees with you on this one, MomoJA, and I understand that in an ideal world, you'd want to give room for flexibility and understanding of the situation. If this had gone to court, and the father had taken a lawyer, rather than admitting his offense directly to the police, who knows? Maybe the hearing would have allowed for these circumstances to be heard and a judge may have decided otherwise. But since the father admitted his deed to a policeman, then the law applies. It is a bad coincidence that the father happens to work with kids all day long and that this specifically ended up with him losing his job.
On the flip side, if you are experienced with kids and you a child professional, <I>
shouldn't you know better</I> than to slap a child for "shocking them" ? If that's how he think, then I know I would not want that man to be a coach for my child. Would you?
I can understand parents not wanting that for their children. How do we know the man will not have the same line of reasoning with a kid in his sport team? At this point its no longer about the crime or the punishment or the law. Without this whole events, parents would have never known that their children were entrusted to a man capable of slapping them.
Now they do. They do not want that. Hence he lost his job.
I actually agree with you when you say that admitting it to the police was more a sign that he had nothing to hide. Although we only have one side of the story and we might be wrong about this, I agree he <I>
most likely </I>really had nothing to hide. The question is: why did he think it was okay to do this in the first place? Why did he felt <I>
entitled </I>to have the right to do this? Would he feel differently about doing this with the children he is entrusted to coach? What would be different about it?