Hi,
I was off work one day last week and took the laptop that all the family use mostly for our kids homework from my almost 16 year old sons bedroom. When I went to youtube my sons account was still logged in and partly because of what was showing up for suggested videos I clicked on history to see what he was looking at and it had lots of gay soft porn. My wife and I are liberal but I am really conflicted for lots of reasons. Firstly I feel guilty for invading his space by clicking on history but also I have not said anything to my wife. Ideally I would at least like to say to him he is not allowed to keep the laptop in his bedroom at night as he is supposed to be sleeping when he has school in the morning.
Basically I am not sure what the best thing to do is if anything. I don't want to force him to talk about this if he is not ready to and if I say to my wife then we are both keeping this from him. I left the laptop downstairs so I suspect he may know that I would have potentially been able to see his account.
I was off work one day last week and took the laptop that all the family use mostly for our kids homework from my almost 16 year old sons bedroom. When I went to youtube my sons account was still logged in and partly because of what was showing up for suggested videos I clicked on history to see what he was looking at and it had lots of gay soft porn. My wife and I are liberal but I am really conflicted for lots of reasons. Firstly I feel guilty for invading his space by clicking on history but also I have not said anything to my wife. Ideally I would at least like to say to him he is not allowed to keep the laptop in his bedroom at night as he is supposed to be sleeping when he has school in the morning.
Basically I am not sure what the best thing to do is if anything. I don't want to force him to talk about this if he is not ready to and if I say to my wife then we are both keeping this from him. I left the laptop downstairs so I suspect he may know that I would have potentially been able to see his account.
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