I'm starting to think that I'm not that great with kids, other than my own. It seems like when I spend any significant amount of time with other people's kids (outside of a structured setting, like school), it starts out great, then devolves into madness once they get "comfortable."
I'm not sure how to handle that. Today I had kids climbing backwards in their seats in the car, whilst buckled; rolling down windows in the pouring rain; going through my mail; kicking the vents; mashing random buttons; yelling, shrieking and arguing with each other; and attempting to litter. I instructed them not to do each of these things, but they seem to think it is even funnier after that. They are not bad kids. Our first few days were great, and they are polite at school. My own kids don't attempt these things. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I mean, I don't feel like I should have to go their parents with the matter. Other parents don't have to approach me about my kids' behavior, so I'd feel a little incompetent if I had to resort to that myself.
I guess it's hard to expect good advice on what I'm doing wrong when no one here has met me. But apparently I emit some vibe that makes kids think it's a wild party any time I'm in charge. And I'd really like to turn that vibe off.
I'm not sure how to handle that. Today I had kids climbing backwards in their seats in the car, whilst buckled; rolling down windows in the pouring rain; going through my mail; kicking the vents; mashing random buttons; yelling, shrieking and arguing with each other; and attempting to litter. I instructed them not to do each of these things, but they seem to think it is even funnier after that. They are not bad kids. Our first few days were great, and they are polite at school. My own kids don't attempt these things. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I mean, I don't feel like I should have to go their parents with the matter. Other parents don't have to approach me about my kids' behavior, so I'd feel a little incompetent if I had to resort to that myself.
I guess it's hard to expect good advice on what I'm doing wrong when no one here has met me. But apparently I emit some vibe that makes kids think it's a wild party any time I'm in charge. And I'd really like to turn that vibe off.