Me and my SO have opened our house to his friend and his daughter for a couple of months (hopefully no longer).
Daughter is 13 and a very intelligent young person. Father is a pompus know it all that feels he wants his daughter to know EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING. Even if it is about someones personal sex life (like OURS)!!!
They have been staying here a month already...she only stays here on the weekends as her mother has custody during the week.
My SO is on the road and doesn't get to come home but for a few days a week out of the month...
We politely and DISCRETELY asked the father if he could make plans to take his daughter out to a movie or dinner the next evening so me and my SO could have some quality time alone...... we didn't say why...and just left it at that...
So he happilly obliged and took his daughter out for a few hours one evening...
The NEXT evening I get an email from him saying this..
"I am glad you were able to have the time and was truly pleased that you took me up on my offer to give you your home on request. I certainly understand the time pressures *****'s gig and kids place upon your relationship and just want you to know **** and I can always find something to do should you so desire.
I hope this amuses rather than embarrasses, but I do try to keep *** informed about the reasons behind everything I do; I'm sure you've seen some of the great rapport and trust this yields. I did tell her that our giving you space was in part to allow you to have noisy sex if you wanted.
She's pretty smart so she already figured that one out."
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!
WHY did he feel the need to divulge this information to his 13 year old child..
this is the same man that tells her to come to him with her friends stories of sex..whether its manual or oral or what ever...he wants to know and will give her advice on what to tell them..
Ewwwww.
I am sickened by this person and the lack of respect he has for OUR discretion and privacy..
and the fact he loves to share juicy details with is daughter makes it worse...
what to I do..
Who can I report him to if I suspect its gone too far?
Daughter is 13 and a very intelligent young person. Father is a pompus know it all that feels he wants his daughter to know EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING. Even if it is about someones personal sex life (like OURS)!!!
They have been staying here a month already...she only stays here on the weekends as her mother has custody during the week.
My SO is on the road and doesn't get to come home but for a few days a week out of the month...
We politely and DISCRETELY asked the father if he could make plans to take his daughter out to a movie or dinner the next evening so me and my SO could have some quality time alone...... we didn't say why...and just left it at that...
So he happilly obliged and took his daughter out for a few hours one evening...
The NEXT evening I get an email from him saying this..
"I am glad you were able to have the time and was truly pleased that you took me up on my offer to give you your home on request. I certainly understand the time pressures *****'s gig and kids place upon your relationship and just want you to know **** and I can always find something to do should you so desire.
I hope this amuses rather than embarrasses, but I do try to keep *** informed about the reasons behind everything I do; I'm sure you've seen some of the great rapport and trust this yields. I did tell her that our giving you space was in part to allow you to have noisy sex if you wanted.
She's pretty smart so she already figured that one out."
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!
WHY did he feel the need to divulge this information to his 13 year old child..
this is the same man that tells her to come to him with her friends stories of sex..whether its manual or oral or what ever...he wants to know and will give her advice on what to tell them..
Ewwwww.
I am sickened by this person and the lack of respect he has for OUR discretion and privacy..
and the fact he loves to share juicy details with is daughter makes it worse...
what to I do..
Who can I report him to if I suspect its gone too far?