Hi! I live in Utah, Salt Lake City. Currently i'm going through a divorce process with my husband, we have a 14 y.o. boy. How to tell my kid that divorce was a mutual decision and it's not his fault? I know that at his age children are usually take a blame on themselves for everything that happens in family, that's why i want to let him know that it's not his fault. His father has a drinking problems, that's why i initiate a divorce process, that's why it's hard for me to take that conversation. Also, we are on really low budget, so if you know anyway how i can make a divorce procces cheaper, please, share it with me! I'll be gratefull for any support. Thanks!