As my name indicates, I have a conundrum. I haven't seen my daughter since my ex and I separated. My daughter was 9 months old at the time. The separation was not the most pleasant and well, here we are almost 3 years later. I'm hoping to see my daughter who has been living with my ex. (Yes, I could likely pursue legal avenues and make her, but I don't see how that could be in my daughter's best interest. Adding stress, both emotional and financial to her mum's life can't be good for her.) One of the big reasons I am hesitating is that having not seen me for almost 3 years, will it be good for my daughter to see me again? Will it be healthy for her? Keeping in mind that I live a long way away and wouldn't be able to see her very often. Would seeing me and then not seeing me just be creating emotional problems?
Obviously I want to see her, but if it would be best for my daughter for me to hold off until she is a little older then - painfully - that is what I will do.
Any thoughts?
Obviously I want to see her, but if it would be best for my daughter for me to hold off until she is a little older then - painfully - that is what I will do.
Any thoughts?