I don't know what to do anymore. My 3 1/2 yr old son will not listen, is constantly into something, breaking stuff, and has now started running off. From the time he gets up at 6:30am to the time he goes to sleep, sometime after midnight, he is literally bouncing off the walls. I've tried to make him take naps, he has a bedtime but it does no good. I can make him lay down, but I can't make him go to sleep.
Today we were going to leave and he ran down the drive and down our private road and was all the way at the neighbors before we caught him.
We went and picked up our oldest from school and ran some errands and went to Subway. As we were about done eating, he gets up and runs out the door and across the parking lot.
I have taken toys, have made him stay home, sit in the vehicle with dad while I go into the stores(he loves going in), taken tv, taken movies, stand in the corner, did time out,sit on the couch, go to his room,you swat him and he laughs.
I am to the point that I don't know what to do anymore. I am in tears and he usually keeps me this way. It is to the point that I am ready to walk away and that makes feel like the most horrible person to say that and know that it will not help him and I'd never do it, but that is the way I feel.
I called his pediatrician and asked to make an appt and told them why. They said that unless he was in daycare or preschool and they made a referral, there was really nothing they could do to help me, that I needed to take all sugar and caffeine away. I've done this. He has never gotten much to begin with, I don't buy sweets or bake them. Only on occasion when we go out to eat, he might get sweets or at the movies. He doesn't get caffeine.
I just really don't know what to do anymore or where to go for help.
Does anyone have any suggestions?
Today we were going to leave and he ran down the drive and down our private road and was all the way at the neighbors before we caught him.
We went and picked up our oldest from school and ran some errands and went to Subway. As we were about done eating, he gets up and runs out the door and across the parking lot.
I have taken toys, have made him stay home, sit in the vehicle with dad while I go into the stores(he loves going in), taken tv, taken movies, stand in the corner, did time out,sit on the couch, go to his room,you swat him and he laughs.
I am to the point that I don't know what to do anymore. I am in tears and he usually keeps me this way. It is to the point that I am ready to walk away and that makes feel like the most horrible person to say that and know that it will not help him and I'd never do it, but that is the way I feel.
I called his pediatrician and asked to make an appt and told them why. They said that unless he was in daycare or preschool and they made a referral, there was really nothing they could do to help me, that I needed to take all sugar and caffeine away. I've done this. He has never gotten much to begin with, I don't buy sweets or bake them. Only on occasion when we go out to eat, he might get sweets or at the movies. He doesn't get caffeine.
I just really don't know what to do anymore or where to go for help.
Does anyone have any suggestions?