<r>Bullying. It’s a real concern and no one can deny that. I’m sure most of us even have a story or two about a bully from our own childhood, but are we overusing the word? It seems like everywhere I look, people are talking about how a child is being bullied, but when you look at the actual incident, it’s more like a one-time thing where a child is being . . . well, a child. The two-year-old who bites in preschool, the three-year-old who’s still pushing and shoving to get their way, the four-year-old who doesn't want to play with another kid and says so. Our these behaviors acceptable? Of course not, but they are normal behaviors in young children. <br/>
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Yet, time and time again I will hear or read where other parents say that the child on the receiving end is being bullied and that the parents need to put a stop to it now. So now we have two-year-olds being labeled as bullies for being two-year-olds? Am I the only one who finds this crazy?<br/>
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According to <URL url="</s>stopbullying.gov<e></e></URL>, the definition of bullying is “unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have serious, lasting problems.”<br/>
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Now I’m not trying to make light of bullying. It is definitely a real and concerning problem for many of our youth.<br/>
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According to the CDC, twenty percent of students in grades 9-12 experience some type of bullying, and according to the National Center for Education Statistics, twenty-eight percent of 6th-12th graders experience some type of bullying. That’s almost one fourth of our school kids! These are scary statistics, but I’m not sure preschool-aged children really do what they do to have power over another individual. They are just very me-oriented little people.<br/>
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But what if your child is really being bullied. What actions can you take?<br/>
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*Talk to your kids about what bullying is. Give them the tools to identify it early. There are some cute little <URL url="</s>webisodes<e></e></URL> for the younger crowds on this very topic.<br/>
*Keep communication open, so that they know they can come to you with a problem.<br/>
*Help them find things that they love. A child with good self-confidence is less likely to be bullied.<br/>
*Most important, model how to be kind to and respectful of others.<br/>
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Stopping bullying doesn't happen overnight. It’s a process that involves swift action by the adults in the child’s life. Most schools have a policy in the event that bullying becomes a problem. Know what this policy is; an educated parent is going to be able to do more than a parent who doesn't understand the policies. <br/>
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Finally, you are your child’s greatest advocate. Don’t be afraid to advocate for them. If a child can’t handle the situation on his or her own, it is up to the parents to step in and squash it before it gets too far.</r>
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Yet, time and time again I will hear or read where other parents say that the child on the receiving end is being bullied and that the parents need to put a stop to it now. So now we have two-year-olds being labeled as bullies for being two-year-olds? Am I the only one who finds this crazy?<br/>
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According to <URL url="</s>stopbullying.gov<e></e></URL>, the definition of bullying is “unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have serious, lasting problems.”<br/>
<br/>
Now I’m not trying to make light of bullying. It is definitely a real and concerning problem for many of our youth.<br/>
<br/>
According to the CDC, twenty percent of students in grades 9-12 experience some type of bullying, and according to the National Center for Education Statistics, twenty-eight percent of 6th-12th graders experience some type of bullying. That’s almost one fourth of our school kids! These are scary statistics, but I’m not sure preschool-aged children really do what they do to have power over another individual. They are just very me-oriented little people.<br/>
<br/>
But what if your child is really being bullied. What actions can you take?<br/>
<br/>
*Talk to your kids about what bullying is. Give them the tools to identify it early. There are some cute little <URL url="</s>webisodes<e></e></URL> for the younger crowds on this very topic.<br/>
*Keep communication open, so that they know they can come to you with a problem.<br/>
*Help them find things that they love. A child with good self-confidence is less likely to be bullied.<br/>
*Most important, model how to be kind to and respectful of others.<br/>
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Stopping bullying doesn't happen overnight. It’s a process that involves swift action by the adults in the child’s life. Most schools have a policy in the event that bullying becomes a problem. Know what this policy is; an educated parent is going to be able to do more than a parent who doesn't understand the policies. <br/>
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Finally, you are your child’s greatest advocate. Don’t be afraid to advocate for them. If a child can’t handle the situation on his or her own, it is up to the parents to step in and squash it before it gets too far.</r>