Because I was young when I had my daughter, I had a lot of information thrown at me and expectations. I enrolled in a school for a year and a half that was specifically for young mothers and there was quite a bit unique things we had to do that I don't recall any older parents were mandated to do. When I was pregnant I even felt I was treated differently.
So, that being said, I feel there was some unnecessary and completely misguided advice I received that I want cleared up, or maybe some of it wasn't that wrong.
1. Reading to your infant very early prevents illiteracy. I talking about starting before they are a month old. This was stressed on me like illiteracy is a disease your kid can catch if there isn't a book in their face, at least, once or twice a day. So, I started reading to her every night. Just try explaining that to the caregiver in the infant room at my school. She started a rule that all the babies HAVE to be read, at the school, everyday, so they can SEE that you're reading to your infant. Whether reading this early to your kid actually reduces illiteracy and gets them liking books isn't something I can answer. All I know is that my daughter loves to read and I like to think I played a big role in that.
2. Don't jump, run, or lift your arms over your head when you are pregnant. It's been well over a decade since I've been pregnant, so I'll let someone who is or has been preggers more recently clear that up.
3. Giving your toddler lots of gum will exercise their tongue and help them talk better, earlier. Where do I start with this? Let's just say someone I knew actually told me that. Of course, I didn't believe her in the slight bit. I just thought it was dangerous and dumb.
So, that being said, I feel there was some unnecessary and completely misguided advice I received that I want cleared up, or maybe some of it wasn't that wrong.
1. Reading to your infant very early prevents illiteracy. I talking about starting before they are a month old. This was stressed on me like illiteracy is a disease your kid can catch if there isn't a book in their face, at least, once or twice a day. So, I started reading to her every night. Just try explaining that to the caregiver in the infant room at my school. She started a rule that all the babies HAVE to be read, at the school, everyday, so they can SEE that you're reading to your infant. Whether reading this early to your kid actually reduces illiteracy and gets them liking books isn't something I can answer. All I know is that my daughter loves to read and I like to think I played a big role in that.
2. Don't jump, run, or lift your arms over your head when you are pregnant. It's been well over a decade since I've been pregnant, so I'll let someone who is or has been preggers more recently clear that up.
3. Giving your toddler lots of gum will exercise their tongue and help them talk better, earlier. Where do I start with this? Let's just say someone I knew actually told me that. Of course, I didn't believe her in the slight bit. I just thought it was dangerous and dumb.