My son is 7 years old and my nephew is 4 years old. When my nephew was born my son was just 3.5 years old and everyone was treating him as the big cousin that is so responsible to provide a good environment for the baby. I was doing that too not for anything but because I am raising my son to be considerate and to have good behaviors towards others. In general I don’t let situations go by if my son is not nice or is doing something good I always stop address the issue and let him share, love and care about others. At least that’s my intention and I am always the most mom when we gather with others that talk to her child and point out for every mistake.
My nephew is so mean to my son, he hits, doesn’t share, makeup stories to blame his mistakes on my son. If there is a mutual friend there is no way he lets my son even come near that kid. He even said it couple of time that he will share only with the other kids but not my son. One time I told them if you didn’t play together I will take that toy away he said fine take it better than letting my son take a turn. I don’t want to be boring but there is many many small incidents like that and I am so angry.
My son is mot aggressive and he never hit back or anything he just go with the flow but he is feeing now that he is not loved from his own family member.
My problem is not the child but I am so angry because my sister in law doesn’t do anything with the harm is towards my son she just keep saying I don’t know what’s wrong he is always nice with all the other kids!!!!! My brother onetime was telling him to share with some friends and the minute he told him to share with my child she said stop he’a been sharing with everyone don’t tell him that. As if it’s acceptable to let him be like that towards my son because he is good to everyone else. We had a gathering at my house he took all the toys of coarse, didn’t let my son plays with anyone or with his own toys and she kept taking pictures for him with other kids but not with his own cousin.
I don’t know what to do I am so angry and I can write more details. I also don’t want to cause an issue in the family but can’t take it anymore.
My nephew is so mean to my son, he hits, doesn’t share, makeup stories to blame his mistakes on my son. If there is a mutual friend there is no way he lets my son even come near that kid. He even said it couple of time that he will share only with the other kids but not my son. One time I told them if you didn’t play together I will take that toy away he said fine take it better than letting my son take a turn. I don’t want to be boring but there is many many small incidents like that and I am so angry.
My son is mot aggressive and he never hit back or anything he just go with the flow but he is feeing now that he is not loved from his own family member.
My problem is not the child but I am so angry because my sister in law doesn’t do anything with the harm is towards my son she just keep saying I don’t know what’s wrong he is always nice with all the other kids!!!!! My brother onetime was telling him to share with some friends and the minute he told him to share with my child she said stop he’a been sharing with everyone don’t tell him that. As if it’s acceptable to let him be like that towards my son because he is good to everyone else. We had a gathering at my house he took all the toys of coarse, didn’t let my son plays with anyone or with his own toys and she kept taking pictures for him with other kids but not with his own cousin.
I don’t know what to do I am so angry and I can write more details. I also don’t want to cause an issue in the family but can’t take it anymore.