My duagher is a shy girl, she has problem socializing with other people even our relatives. I wanted her to build her self esteem and to have self confidence. So I've been telling her to find a part time job to get some experience, meet other people and to know what's out there for here. She's going to university freshman this month and I've told her to get a job in the university so she can earn her own money and feel great about herself. We also have some financial issues and her dad is very sick. But the main readon I want her to get a job is for her to learn how to stand on her own feet and be independent. She said she's been looking for a job but I did not believe her because she did not have any interviews and herf job applications still in her room. Am I wrong to push her to get a part time job? She said I've been giving her a lot of pressure but she's not doing anything about it. The whole summer is a disaster for both of us. Shes' kind of lazy and doesn't take initiative to do something. I have to tell her to do stuff even though she knows she has to do it. Thanks in advanced for your advise.