Pretty sure im gonna be a dad x2...

[superman]

She is booked to to get the paternity test results Thurs. im anxious as hell man but were both pretty sure its mine.

:takeabow:

 

[sbattisti]

That was impressive; you managed to write that in such a way that I have no idea if you're anxious in a positive or negative way??

So, um, almost congratulations?

 

[Antoinette]

congratulations. i think..

*off topic, need's no reply*

every time i read your name sbattisti i always read it as Spaghetti. so I'm like Spaghetti says ..... it always takes me about 30 seconds to remember that's not what your name says LOL... just thought I'd share

 

[sbattisti]

every time i read your name sbattisti i always read it as Spaghetti. so I'm like Spaghetti says ..... just thought I'd share

LOL.

 

[Xero]

Wow, congratulations Superman. Do you think this girl will work out for you? You guys gonna stay together and raise the baby together?

 

[IADad]

Judging from the smiling and bowing smiling, it seems like a wanted thing, so congrats and hope everything works out the way you want it.

 

[ElliottCarasDad]

I'm not sure how excited I'd be if my SO had to get a paternity test to see if their kid was mine.......but thats me

Congrats?!

 

[superman]

no no shes not my girlfriend we werent dating or nothing. so no we wont be together raising...
thanks all for the congrats,wasnt planned but id love another kid.

 

[stjohnjulie]

Today is the day!!! You have to let us know what you find out. Give us some details on the baby (?).... I hope it turns out the way you want it to. Good luck!

 

[Xero]

no no shes not my girlfriend we werent dating or nothing. so no we wont be together raising...

Obviously not my business, but I have to ask... its not even worth a try? You seem so indifferent about it. Its kinda sad.

 

[sbattisti]

Sooo, maybe I'm talking about the elephant in the room, but I seem to recall your first son being "unintentional" as well. Do you have the most incredibly bad luck with broken condoms, or . . . might you want to consider the benefits of safe(r) sex? Because it sure sounds like you could end up with a good deal more than two at this rate.

Jus' sayin'.

 

[superman]

.....

 

[superman]

uh no im not gonna try w/ her because i dont wanna get involved and settle down right now.

 

[Jeremy+3]

Plus getting back with someone because of a dna test is a really really bad basis to a relationship

 

[Xero]

Obviously just getting someone pregnant isn't a REASON to settle down with a person, but the fact is that if you don't want to be "tied down" then why are you having kids? Hello kids are not just something to have for fun? If you didn't want to "get involved" then you wouldn't have risked getting her pregnant??? :/

And Jeremy, he's not staying with her to raise the baby because he doesn't want to settle down, not because he thinks they're bad together. So you're in the wrong theory there. He's not getting back with someone that he broke up with, he was never dating her in the first place.

 

[Jeremy+3]

It is a turn of phrase Xero

 

[Xero]

I guess all I'm trying to say is that it clearly doesn't matter to him if it would work out between them or not, he just doesn't want to be responsible one way or the other.

 

[Jeremy+3]

If he wasn't taking responsibility he wouldn't be ensuring they have a dna test and excited by the fact that he is going to be a father again.

 

[Xero]

Yeah I think that's a matter of opinion. A DNA test and some excitement might mean responsibility to you, but to me responsibility means growing up and becoming a parent, maybe even taking the slightest interest in your kid having a family, not just claiming your property and hanging out with it on the weekends for fun. But if that's responsibility to you, that's fine. Not a fact though, just your opinion.

 

[minnie]

I hope you get the answers you are wanting!