I have been in a relationship for about a year now. My boyfriend has 2 ex wives, 3 sons.. He has a wonderful relationship with the mother of his oldest 2 boys, she's re-married and totally respectful of boundaries. The second ex-wife, mother of the 7 year old child... Not so much. She has severe control & rage issues. She likes to throw wrenches into every situation to do with the child & co-parenting situation. I do have to give some credit that since I've been around my bf has tightened up the visitation sched so things are more organized, but that doesn't stop her from constantly trying to change it around to accommodate her life only. My bf tends to always say yes to the change because he sees it as best for his son. I see it sometimes as her always getting her way. My biggest issue is the constant texting/trash talking via text day after day after day. Trash talking re: co-parent opinions.. That are not healthy, but he ignores this.. The most bothersome to me is out of the blue all the sudden will send him a text saying, "how about those Broncos!?" Or, some other stupid message like all the sudden he's her buddy.. He thinks it's the oddest thing ever!! He never replies, but he also never tells her to not text text him especially when it's not regarding their son. It's really starting to get to me that he doesn't put his foot down. He doesn't seem to think its that big of a deal since he doesn't reply.. Am I over reacting? I feel like there needs to be a boundary set to let her know it's completely inappropriate to text unless it's about the child only. Some one please tell me your thoughts on this subject, I really could use some help!!! Thanks
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