OK guys, this has really been bothering me lately as we approach Christmas.
Why is it ok to lie to our children? I mean, I see the joy and excitemment that my daughter has "knowing" that Santa Claus is coming and she's going to get lots of cool stuff for Christmas. I see this knowing that I'm going to have to eventually break her heart. I dread the day that she comes home from school crying because some older kid told her that Santa isn't real.
Why do we live this lie with our kids? If she lied to me for years about something, I'd be really angry, so why is it ok for me to do it to her?
I'm not saying that I'm going to stop, but I sure need someone to make me feel better about it....
Why is it ok to lie to our children? I mean, I see the joy and excitemment that my daughter has "knowing" that Santa Claus is coming and she's going to get lots of cool stuff for Christmas. I see this knowing that I'm going to have to eventually break her heart. I dread the day that she comes home from school crying because some older kid told her that Santa isn't real.
Why do we live this lie with our kids? If she lied to me for years about something, I'd be really angry, so why is it ok for me to do it to her?
I'm not saying that I'm going to stop, but I sure need someone to make me feel better about it....